| “Bourgeois (adjective): of or characteristic of the middle class, typically with reference to its perceived materialistic values or conventional attitudes.” |
“to all the Ladies in the place with style and Grace!”
-Notorious B.I.G
Welcome to The Bourgeois Betty Blog!
I am Chanelle, a 40 something wife, mother, and girly-girl who is obsessed with all things Beauty, Fashion and Etiquette! I like to think of myself as Classy, Polished and Astute as well as humble and downright REAL! Surprisingly (LoL), I am often referred to as Bourgeois… for years, I fought that word because of its negative connotation, but now, I Own It! So, I decided to create a lifestyle blog to put a positive spin on the word Bourgeois and to let other women know that its Ok to be a little more refined with a palate of particularity! So what is “A Bourgeois Betty?”
A Bourgeois Betty, is not only the typical characteristics of how one looks or acts, but it is an absolute mindset and lifestyle! A Bourgeois Betty, simply put is a high valued woman. A woman that knows her worth and exudes an energy that goes beyond her physical appearance. Her spirit attracts people to her like a moth to a flame but she is very careful who she allows in her space. She knows her value and can hold her own. She epitomizes a modern day queen, with increased levels of self-worth (because she continues to create it). She has the power and agency to be irresistibly sexy, feminine, and possesses a confidence that exudes from unwavering self-love and self-esteem. She knows how to embrace her charm, femininity, and beauty in a way that is authentic to her. She believes in style and class, and loves the finer things in life! She never feels the need to seek attention from others because she is confident in her external and internal beauty and always holds herself with grace. She takes care of herself and understands the importance of living a balanced life. She’s grounded in maturity, and strives to be the best version of herself every single day. She is naturally beautiful inside and out, honest, brave, loyal and nurturing. She’s educated, witty, kind, compassionate, empathetic, vulnerable, passionate, and not afraid to speak her mind.
She can be raw with her words, but yet gentle with her touch. She is soulful, connected and driven. A triple-threat and go getter. As you can see she is many, many things but above and beyond she is a woman who knows her value, loves and respects herself and only wants people in her life who values her too. She is most commonly found being a creative, entrepreneur, wife, mother, daughter, sister, and loyal friend. I am sure most women exude some of these traits or all and if its you I’m calling out, Hello Dawlin! Welcome to The Bourgeois Betty sisterhood of high valued women who know their worth, know who they are and Own It! I see you.. and keep werking it!!
Sincerely,